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Irritation with Adoption Rules - Venting - Adoption.com Forums

We have had FD with us since she was 13 days old, so 15 months at this point (will be just over 16 months by court time). They placed her with us knowing that we are foster/adopt licensed, since a lot of these types of cases have been going to TPR. DFS has known since very early on that we are VERY interested in adoption if it comes to that.

Now, here we stand at less than 6 weeks from TPR trial, and they tell us they have to post FD's case "publicly" for any interested adoptive parents to come forward? Don't get me wrong, they have also told us that we are their first choice for FD's permanency, and they have been nothing less than complimentary for our entire 15 months as FP's. I'm not worried about that so much as the fact that it all seems like such a big waste of time.

If you know you are going to select us as her adoptive parents, then why spend the time, money and energy into finding additional possible adoptive resources? Unfortunately, it seems the reason always comes down to "procedures and laws". While they slash FP's pay (49th out of 50th in the nation for lowest pay rate already - go big MO!), they squander any remaining resources on useless things like this. And, all the possible AP's who put time and effort into hoping they may get our sweet little FD are left in the dark. It makes me ill.

Okay. Rant over. Thanks for letting me vent.

Source: http://forums.adoption.com/foster-parent-support/409374-irritation-adoption-rules-venting.html

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